On a related note, yesterday at the gym I was talking to my mother in law, who lives here, about the IUIs because she likes to know what's going on and because she is going to watch Jude for me during them. Anyway, after we discuss the details she tells me that if at all possible S and I should "make love" after each one as having an orgasm helps you to get pregnant and helps you to relax. Ew, so much ew. When I got home I told S about her moms comments to which she replied that makes me never want to have sex again. Totally. Oh mother in laws. Haha.