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-S
Two Moms, two boys, too much fun
Sunday, September 27, 2015
Bfn
Well, another one bites the dust. Another negative. I think we are going to give it a few more tries and possibly call it after that. Liz is a bit more optimistic about it than I am. On one hand, we have only tried 4 times this go round. We have been at this since January despite that. But, when do you call it quits? For now, we are going to try 2 more times and might stop after that. We both want a baby, but at what financial and emotional cost? We have an amazing son already, and our family is good with the 3 of us. We just always saw a family of 4, but maybe that will not be the case.
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So very sorry. Don't give up hope! It took us 5 tries (10 months) to have Riley. You never know. My friends took 19 tries and 8 tries! It's just a crazy crap shoot really. Hopefully you'll have your baby. If not, having a single child affords you all kinds of things you don't get with having multiple. There is good and bad with both. But I do hope that you get what *you* want for your family in the end.
ReplyDeleteIt took us 13 tries (over 16 months) with Little Monster and 22 tries (over 2 years) with Boo. It IS exhausting. There were many times where I was ready to throw in the towel when TTC #2. One and done is not the end of the world, but much like you, we always envisioned a two mom/two kids family and it was hard to let that go. I hope it works out for you and what feels right is the right thing to do, no matter what other factors play a role.
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