Grow Little Follicles!

Today we did our cycle day 3 visit with our fertility doctor.  For those not in the know, the appointment is mostly for figuring out what drugs and dosages you need and just to make sure everything looks good, no ovarian cysts or anything like that.  Our appointment went great.  First they did an ultrasound to measure the uterine lining, which was just where it should be.  Then they look at the ovaries and measure any follicles.  S had several that were in the normal range for this point in her cycle so basically everything looked good and is ready to go!!

We talked to our doc after reviewing the ultra sounds about the whole thyroid thing and he said that they wouldn't need to test it again till S was pregnant so no worries about that stopping things.  And he said once we get the positive OPK that we would come in and do another ultrasound before the IUI to be sure the follicle looked good and was on it's way so we arnt wasting sperm if it is ruptured or something.  Totally nice thin is that they don't charge for that.  So now it is just a matter of peeing on sticks till we get that positive, which timing wise should be somewhere between Feburary 9-11th as we will do two IUIs 24 hours apart.

Yay!  We are so excited!  We are making plans to go our for one more big meal at the Brazilian resturant in town (steak!) before S can't eat it anymore, so that's exciting too.  And the nice part about TCC your second kid vs the first is that while it is still exciting, it isn't all consuming like the first time was, mostly because Jude keeps us so busy!  That plus having his birthday party this Saturday and his actual birthday on Monday.  Geez, still can't believe he is only days away from being 3 years old!

So we are thinking One Hit Wonder thoughts and doing all we can to see that BFP in a few weeks time!
-Liz

Convos with Jude

Jude cracks me up with the things he says so I've decided I really need to keep track of this cuteness, thus Convos with Jude!

At a fast food play area when two new kids walk up to play- "Are you good guys?" ( to which they relied yes they were good guys as if it was the most normal question to ask of a new friend).

When I told him this morning that he needed to put in his jacket before we left- "Mom you are making me crazy!" 

Convo this morning while he was on the potty- "Mom, where is my daddy?  What is he doing today?"

As I left for my book club yesterday- "Love you mom!  Have fun!"

When I told him we'd have to wait for other mom to get up because I didn't know where a particular toy was- "oh, maybe I go look for it? I'll just take a look around."

As we walk past the toy store- "Mom, I'll be right back, just one minute.  I just need to check something out in there."

After going to the bathroom with Grandpa- "Mom! Grandpa has a BIG peepee!!"

In the car after laughing about something random right after talking about one of his friends- "Mom, I'm mad at you!" "Why are you mad Jude?"  "I'm mad because you were being silly about my friend."

Oh that kid!

-Liz 

Little Swimmers on the Way!

So this is way more exciting to us than probably to anyone else but we ordered our sperm for our upcoming insemination!  I have been looking through profiles on our sperm bank for the last two months as we can't use the same donor for #2 as we did for Jude (all out at the bank).  I had it narrowed down to 4 and last night we picked one and ordered two IUI vials.  Man, the price of sperm sure did go up!  

Our first IUI won't be for another two or three weeks yet, but our lovely doctor lets us store our vials at the office for free, so no reason not to go ahead and order.  Cross your fingers though that we are able to do our Feburary insemination though.  When we got S's bloodwork back a little bit ago it showed that her thyroid levels were at 3 and our doctor likes to see it at or below 2.5.  So she went the next day to get her thyroid meds adjusted to bring it down that tiny bit.  The problem is that it takes about 4-6 weeks to really see the number change.  Four weeks from when she adjusted her meds put us about three or four days past ovulation, unfortunately.  We are crossing our fingers that the adjustment is enough to get us where we need to be and also that we can get our doctor to allow for her to get the levels pulled a few days before ovulation to check it.  So Feburary is possibly a maybe, we will have to wait and see.

In other news, our sweet little baby turns 3 in less than two weeks.  Wow, so crazy.  We are having a little birthday party at our house for him.  For months now he has been telling us very specifically that he wants "Lightning McQueen cupcakes" for his birthday.  So today while he was at his Mother's Day out program I went to Party City and bought pretty much everything Cars/Lightning McQueen related and a sweet friend has offered to make the requested cupcakes.  He is going to freak out when he sees it all, I can't wait!

A few pics of my cutie!

-Liz 

Cloth Diapers 101

With Jude we knew from the get go that we wanted to use cloth diapers.  The amount of information out there about cloth diapers is a bit overwhelming, there are so many different types.  I don't know all there is to know about it but I would like to share our experience.  Cloth diapering isn't for everyone but it has some major advantages.  It's also one if the biggest things people gave us a hard time about when we were pregnant with Jude, lots of comments about how "oh that sounds horrible" or "you'll never keep up with that".  And I'm here to tell you that it is easier than you think.  Even if you work full time, even if your kid is in daycare, you can do it.  You could even do it if you didn't have a washing machine though that does make it easier.

First off, why do it?  Everyone has their reasons for doing it or not doing it, but for us it was two main things.  One because it is cheaper in the long run.  Up front getting your "stach" together can be expensive depending on the type of diaper you choose.  By time we had purchased all of the diapers we wanted we had spent about $500.  Which is a lot of money, I know.  The diapers we picked were on the more expensive end of things and we got them new instead of used, we also liked having a lot of diapers on hand.  But, to diaper one child from start to finish is estimated by Baby Center to be about $80 a month.  And we used our cloth diapers from Jude being about three months old all the way to being potty trained at 2 1/2.  We also plan to use them with our next child as well so in all we have saved about $3,000 just by cloth diapering.  Of course there is some cost in washing them and accessories but that cost is small.  The second reason we decided to do it is because we really felt like it was healthier for Jude.  Not that disposable diapers are "unhealthy", but they are full of chemicals which is what makes them absorbent.  And those chemicals gave Jude diaper rash that was constant.  I liked knowing that all he had on him was soft chemical free cloth.  Lots of people cloth diaper because of environmental concerns like disposables filling up landfills and such, though I know there is some debate on how environmentally friendly some of them are due to manifacturing and the water used to wash them.  Another few good points is that we hardly even had "blow outs" or leaks.  They are super cute!  And pretty dang easy!  Also they have a pretty good resale rate through several online groups if you decide you don't like them or after you are done with them.

Now on to the details.  For Jude we used the Bumgenius free time diapers.  The majority of cloth diapers are pocket diapers that have washable inserts that you stuff into the pocket.  The Freetime diapers are different in that it is all one layered piece that just folds over.  

We picked these because not having to stuff and unstuff the diapers sounded good to us as it was one less thing to have to do and stuff like an insert so the sort of thing that we are good at loosing.  But I do have to note that this convience does make them more expensive then even the pocket style by the same brand.  These diapers come with either Velcro or snaps.  Initally we order ours half Velcro and half snaps because we weren't sure what we would like best.  In the end it seemed like some of the Velcro was crapping out and needed to be replaced very early on so we sold them to a friend and ordered more snap style diapers to replace the Velcros.  We also started with 12 diapers because again we didn't know anyone else at the time who was doing them and we weren't sure if we'd like it.  Eventually we ordered 12 more for a total of 24, but really how many you need depends on how often you want to do laundry.  With a little baby having 12 means doing laundry every day so with 24 we would wash them every other day, which we preferred.  For washing them we would throw them into the washer and do one cycle cold with no detergent, then one cycle hot with about two table spoons of All Free and Clear, and then an extra cold rinse after that.  I know that might not be the "official" way to do it, but they always came out clean and I think in two and half years of use I only had to strip them (where you wash them a bunch of times to get out any detergent residues that night be causing absorbency issues or smell issues) twice.  For drying we almost always just threw them in the dryer but on a nice day we did dry them on a drying rack in the sun.  On occasion we had stains but like magic if you lay them out in the sun it gets rid of them, so ours even after so much use are stain free and in great shape.

As far as the everyday use is concerned, we started off using this diaper bin that had a waterproof
washable liner.  We got two liners so while one liner was washing the other could go right in.  And so with wet diapers we just threw them on in and with poopy ones we flushed what we could of the poop and then threw it in the bin.  We bought a diaper sprayer but never ended up attaching it to our toilet so I don't think they are necessary, though it might be nice.  This worked pretty well when Jude was little and we were washing the diapers every night.  But once he stopped going through 12-20 diapers a day we only washed every other day and things started to get smelly.  So we ditched the diaper bin and started using these wet/dry bags.  We had three of the extra big ones and they would hang on the door knob of the rooms we changed him most in, with one empty for then they were in the wash.  And we would just dump the bag out in the wash and then wash the bag along with the diapers.  We also had a medium sized wet/dry bag that we kept in our diaper bag.  As far as wipes go, at the beginning we used cloth wipes and they were easy, you just used a spray that is made for them and then you can put them right in the wash.  Somewhere along the way we lost track of them and ran out of spray so we used disposable wipes in the end.  I think next time I'll use the washable wipes and just get a lot more of them along with buying a ton of spray and then use flushable wipes for the diaper bag or something like that.

Lastly, a few negatives.  Washing them is a bit of a pain.  It's easy to forgot they are in the wash and what cycle comes next.  We eventually made a magnet that had 1,2,&3 on it that we would turn to show what cycle they were currently on, which helped.  But washing the diapers really isn't a big deal, it's just remembering to do it.  They also give your baby, especially little babies, a big butt!  Not a big deal again, but it did make some onesies fit weird or not at all and Jude was always in a size bigger clothes because of them.  We also had problems once Jude started sleeping better (3-4 hours at a time) with them leaking at night.  I'm sure we could have gotten a more absorbent pad to add to the diaper to stop the problem, but in the end we just put him in a disposable for night time and that worked great.  So, you don't have to use them 100% of the time if you don't want to.  We didn't feel comfortable washing them at other peoples houses so we always traveled with disposables as well and used one of the rare occasion that all the diapers were in the wash.  We also used them on again
the very rare occasion that Jude had a diaper rash.  With cloth diapers you really arnt supposed to use diaper rash cream with them (unless it is a special cream made for cloth diapers) because it can mess them up.  They do sell paper liners you could use to protect the diaper but for us of was easier just to use a disposable, lather him in cream and normally within one or two days he was back in his cloth diapers if not sooner.

Ok so that was a lot of information!  I think I covered everything I can think of but feel free to post any questions in the comments!  Also if you cloth diaper and have anything to add please do!

-Liz 

Blogger Craft Exchange

Yesterday in the mail we received our blogger craft exchange in the mail from the ladies at http://www.freshstartaroundeverycorner.wordpress.com!  It's so cute, check out the ornament they made for us!  And getting it done with a new baby in the house is even more impressive!  I could hardly get myself fed and showered when Jude was a new born!

Jude of course has sampled several of the kisses and because he doesn't understand that they are different flavors keeps insisting on the candy cane ones which he promptly spits out into my hand.  Thanks kid.  I can't wait to hang it in our tree next year and as a bonus we have a new blog to follow!  Thanks again!

-Liz 

TTC 2.0 is a Go!

Back in May S and I started talking about trying for baby number two and ultimately decided we weren't ready yet.  Then in November we decided that we were ready but we wanted to have x number of dollars in savings first.  And in December we had a very generous Christmas and we were able to meet our goal.  So, full steam ahead!

Yesterday was step one, meeting with the fertility doctor.  We are using the same doctor as we did with Jude and this time around everything seems so much simpler.  And as a nice suprise our insurance has $3,500 in fertility coverage without any hoops to jump through.  Last time we had 0 help from insurance.  First thing is S had to get some blood work done, check her thyroid (because of her thyroid disorder), check her CMV status, STD test and one other I can't remember.  She got all of it done yesterday other than the one I can't think of because it's new and the lab she went to (that the doctor recommended, annoying) didn't know what it was.  So she has to get that one done today.  

Next step is picking our sperm donor.  Unfortunately we arn't able to use the same donor as we had for Jude, they don't have any left.  We have it narrowed down to five guys right now.  Once we decide we will have it shipped to their office as our doctor will hold onto it for free.

Step three is waiting for cycle day 3 where they will do ultrasounds and tests to make sure everything looks good.  From their it is just a matter of waiting for S to ovulate.  She has a really regular cycle and has been tracking it and her ovulation for a few months now so it should be a piece of cake.  Then we will do two drug free IUI inseminations and hopefully be one hit wonders again!

Because of where S is in her cycle and just getting everything done, we are going to do our first insemination in Feburary!!!! I'm so excited.  One hit wonder! One hit wonder!

Oh and it goes without saying that if you know us in real life or on Facebook, kept it under wraps, k?

-Liz 

Winter Photo Recap

I have a lot of blogging to do, but till I can get to it, here is our last month in pictures

Christmas morning was so fun!

First snow ball fight while in Oklahoma 

Cousins!  Jude loves this baby!

New Years with my bros!

-Liz